"Healthy Caregivers Make Better Caregivers." TM
"Small wins warrant respect in the face of crushing odds that so many caregivers endure. Victories, however tiny, define our progress not our pace."
"Many express difficulties in knowing how to help caregivers, but most caregivers agree that it's not complicated. Sometimes it's just a bowl, of soup and a kind word."
"As caregivers, we often must make decisions that benefit the whole unit—not just one person."
"The Bible affirms that God’s Word is a “lamp unto my feet.” It’s a lamp, not a searchlight. As caregivers, we serve ourselves and loved one better to do the next right thing – with the light provided."
"Countless caregivers spend way too much time condemning themselves for the out-of-control behavior of someone else."
"When we restrain our emotions and master our response to any given circumstances, we live a bit calmer and can add more victories to the “win column.”"
"Humor and optimism remain great weapons against despair. While many challenges and heartaches seem permanent, we can still purpose to live with joy, gratitude, and even laughter."
"There is no vacation destination that will cure bitterness. The spectacular cannot accomplish what we refuse to implement. We can better appreciate the beauty in different locations once we choose to experience them in our current situation."
"Addressing the caregiver’s needs (not wants) isn’t selfish. Quite the opposite—it helps ensure that the impaired loved one’s care is in the hands of a healthier caregiver."
"Many faced with hardships lament, “How do I get out of this?” Caregivers (and others) can instead change that question to “What can I become through this?”"
"History teaches that risks and heartache remain unavoidable, but joy is a choice."
"Sometimes the greatest gift we can give to others struggling with heartbreaking decisions is to clear the room, quieten the noise, and sit with them."
"Rather than pointlessly escalate blood pressure, tensions quickly diffuse when assuring instead of arguing."
Through an unprecedented journey with his wife Gracie, Peter has faced over 85 major surgeries, including her double below-the-knee amputation. This led him to collaborate with 100+ doctors, 13 hospitals, and 7 insurance companies, accruing medical bills exceeding $15 million. These experiences gave Peter profound insights into disability-related healthcare challenges.
With a Bachelor's in Music from Belmont University, Peter is an accomplished pianist who infuses his presentations with expressive music. He entertains, inspires, and challenges diverse audiences. He's also an award-winning composer and has released the album "Songs for the Caregiver."